When the girl you like chooses to sit next to someone else but not you, it hurts. You might be thinking that she avoids sitting next to you because she finds you unappealing.
Yes, it’s possible that she finds you unattractive and avoids sitting next to you for that reason, but there may also be other factors at play that you might be unaware of.
We’ll explore a few possibilities in this piece for why she didn’t choose to sit next to you.
1: She’s Shy
Girls are inherently more shy than men. They do not express themselves unless they are well acquainted with you.
Her refusal to sit next to you, despite the fact that all of the seats are nearly full, indicates that she is quite bashful.
You may also note that she avoids making eye contact with you, and even if she sits next to you, she rarely makes eye contact or speaks to you. If you’re observing these indicators, it’s obvious that she doesn’t sit next to you not because she thinks you’re ugly but rather because she’s quite bashful.
2: She Believes That People Will Judge Her.
Even in the current period, women are heavily judged, particularly in third-world countries.
In fact, in many nations, parents instruct their daughters to avoid boys, telling them not to talk to or sit next to one.
Tbh, it’s not totally the fault of the parents, because crimes against women are widespread, especially in nations where the law is lax.
The concern that something bad would happen keeps parents worried, which is why they advise their daughters not to engage with men, especially unknown men.
Furthermore, some individuals will rapidly pass judgment on a woman’s character simply because she is seated next to a man.
In reality, I witnessed a woman disparaging a woman who was seated next to her guy buddy on a bus.
That elderly lady was saying that modern times have no shame, and that young women had forgotten their customs.
As a result, girls nowadays sadly feel that if they sit close to a guy, they would be judged negatively. It may appear strange to you, yet it is true.
Not only old aunts, but certain men also wrongly assume that a girl is interested in them when she sits next to them. They are unaware that the reality may be completely different.
3: You Don’t Smell Nice
Maybe she did sit with you one day, but your smell wasn’t appealing to her, or maybe she thought your smell was revolting and decided not to sit next to you.
Girls have a strong sense of smell. They despise it when a guy stinks; it’s an instant turn off.
If you consistently receive unfavorable feedback regarding your body odor, it’s time to make a change. Take measures that will improve your smell for the better.
So, if you don’t do anything about your body odor, not only will she avoid sitting next to you, but every lady will avoid sitting next to you, and even guys will avoid sitting next to you, so it’s really bad for you, do something about it as soon as possible.
4: It’s Quite Normal
It’s entirely natural for women to avoid sitting next to stranger males, and for men to avoid sitting next to stranger women.
Why should you feel bad about her not sitting next to you if she isn’t your buddy or has never met you before?
Do you always sit next to women? I’m rather certain you don’t.
5: She Likes Sitting With People She’s Familiar With
She might have been waiting for someone else—possibly a friend—and that is why she didn’t choose to sit next to you.
We all want to sit with someone we are familiar with because we want to be at ease. When we sit with someone we don’t get along with, we typically don’t talk much to them and occasionally feel rather uncomfortable in addition to bored.
6: She Doesn’t Like You
If you know her well and she sits with everyone but you, it might signal that she dislikes or despises you.
If this is the case, you may also notice other indicators such as avoiding eye contact, avoiding talking to you, avoiding touching you, and so on.
If she exhibits the above-mentioned behaviors, it is apparent that she dislikes you and hates sitting close to you.
7: You Are Very Attractive
Perhaps she finds you quite attractive and avoids sitting next to you because she believes you are out of her league.
Men also avoid sitting with highly attractive women because they are overwhelmed with negative ideas such as, you are not very handsome, you will not be able to talk with her well, she must have a partner, etc.
Maybe she wants to sit next to you, but she never does because of her lack of self-confidence.
You’ll notice, however, that she glances at you repeatedly, maintains eye contact with you for a longer period of time, and acts incredibly uncomfortably when you speak to her if she simply avoids sitting next to you because she believes you to be very attractive.
If you think she secretly finds you incredibly beautiful, you can make her feel better by going and sitting next to her. I’m sure she’ll feel wonderful!
8: You Don’t Appear Friendly
Perhaps you don’t appear friendly. Some people, no matter how polite they are, appear rude or hostile, which may explain why people avoid being friends with you.
The greatest method to appear nice is to smile whenever possible, keep your head up, and quit using your phone all the time, especially when you are around people.
Also, interact with others more. When you find the proper chance to chat to her, don’t hesitate; just talk to her about something so she understands that you are not aggressive but rather nice.
9: She Doesn’t Find You Attractive
This may make some of you uncomfortable, but it is also feasible. Perhaps she simply does not find you appealing.
If she flirts with other guys or sits with other guys but never with you, it means she has no feelings for you in her heart and that you are just another guy in her eyes.
The good news is that beauty is subjective to the individual. This means that if she doesn’t find you beautiful, someone else will; after all, we live on a globe with 8 billion individuals, 4 billion of whom are women.
So, instead of feeling bad because a woman refuses to sit next to you, you should just live your life and wait for your dream girl.
I hope you liked this post.
Thanks for reading!