Why She Doesn’t Text Me First? (9 Most Likely Reasons)

It feels really bad when we have to always text the person we love so much first. It feels even worse when the person we are sending a text to replies late or leaves our messages on seen.

In this post, I’ll be listing some of the most likely reasons why she never texts first. So make sure to stick to this post to get complete information.

1: You Don’t Have Much Value

According to a well-known proverb, men are respected for their strength and fortune while women are admired for their beauty.

If you’re young and don’t have much money or respect in this society, you should realize one thing: ladies aren’t going anywhere, so stop focusing on them for a while and start focusing on yourself.

When you have greater worth, you will discover that many ladies take you seriously.

A man with money, power, and intelligence will completely annihilate an 18 or 20-year-old without money or power.

Your objective should be to become a valuable person rather than to simp for women.

It’s fine if she doesn’t text you first, but remember that it’s not normal to feel comfortable if you’re poor and have no skills!

2: She Is Not Into You

If you’ve known her for a long time and she still doesn’t text first, it’s evident she doesn’t find you appealing.

Women in general enjoy texting guys they like. In fact, some women just cannot stop texting when they are really in love with someone.

However, if you’ve only known her for a few days, it’s possible that she becomes nervous while conversing with you, and as a result, she never texts you first.

It depends on the duration of your friendship. If she knows you well but still doesn’t text you first, I don’t think you need any more evidence that she is currently not interested in you.

3: She’s Busy

In this world, where many individuals are striving to live their ideal lives, she may be one of them.

Perhaps she has a lot of work right now and doesn’t spend much time on the internet.

Inquire with her about her current schedule. When a lady is busy, she usually informs her friends about it when their friends inquire about what’s going on in their lives.

Asking her if she is busy right now will help you figure out why she never texts you first.

4: She Doesn’t Consider You As Her Close Companion

Maybe you haven’t yet made it to her close companion list. To become someone she can connect with, you have to win her trust.

Winning the trust of a woman is one of the most difficult things to do. You will have to prove to her why you will be the best partner for her.

You may have to help her, you may have to wait for her after the class is finished, and you might have to invest your time.

If you truly want her, like if you really love her deeply, only then try to win her trust. If you have even 1% doubt that you don’t love her, then don’t do it!


Read: 9 Signs She Doesn’t Want You To Approach Her (Strong Signs)


5: She Probably Doesn’t Use Social Media Much

Perhaps she is one of the few women who avoids social media. Women, in my perspective, use social media more than males.

If you aren’t seeing any stories, photos, reels, or other anything from her, it’s very probable that she has taken a break from social media or she only uses it once in a while, and that’s why she never texts you first.

6: She Never Text’s You First Because You Once Ignored Her

It might be possible that she is taking revenge on you. Recall the moments. Have you ever ignored her?

If yes, I think you deserve something like this from her. Women don’t like when they get ignored by someone.

However, if she is ignoring you because you ignored her first, it indicates that she has some feelings for you because a woman may not get angry at someone she doesn’t have any feelings for.

7: You Are Not Single

Maybe she knows you’re not single, and that’s why she never tries her hardest to better her relationship with you since she knows she won’t get you even if she tries her hardest.

If you’re in a relationship, you must concentrate on your relationship and not on other women. Be loyal to your partner buddy!

8: She Knows You Are Too Busy Nowadays

When they have a lot of work, some people don’t like to talk to people; perhaps you are one of them.

Do you find it irksome when someone tries to talk to you while you are working on something? or do you perform a time-consuming job? Does she know about it?

If the answer is yes, it’s quite likely she doesn’t text you first because she doesn’t want to bother you.

9: She Never Texts You First Because You Have Poor Chatting Skills

By just honing your conversation skills, you can differentiate yourself from the majority of males.

In the dating game, having good chatting abilities is crucial since without them, you won’t be able to keep a woman interested for an extended period of time.

The majority of males lack this ability, they either respond with one word or inanely dull sentences, and as a result, women choose to ignore them.

The problem is that hardly one uses the advice they gain from these excellent videos to better their chatting abilities in real life; in fact, the majority of guys simply disregard it.

The video, which I thought was extremely intriguing, is below. You must put the advice into practice shown in the video below.

I hope you liked this post.

Thanks for reading!