Choosing a good life partner is not as easy as it seems. In fact, it is one of the toughest jobs. There are many girls who appear very polite and nice but in reality, they’re evil.
In today’s post, I’m gonna share some vital tricks that can help you detect whether the girl you’ve been dating is a good person or not. However, the tips that I’m about to share are based on my experiences and some research I’ve done online.
And, I’m not a dating coach or human psychology expert.
So, if you find something wierd or if you think the point is not valid, do let me know in the comment section, I’ll try to correct it asap.
Now, without wasting any more time, let’s begin with point number one:
1: Look At Her Past Dating History
This is the most effective way to know, how loyal she is. Look at her past dating history, find out why she had to break up and why her relationships didn’t work out.
If she has dated a lot of men in the past, it’s a sign that she might ditch you. However, it is not always true.
Women like to hide their dating history, so you have to become a detective for some time so that you can find out about her past dating history understand her a little better. I know it sounds stupid, but if you have to do it because it’s a matter of your life and you can’t take it lightly.
2: How Much Does She Spend Every Month
If you want a stable life, then you have to have a partner who understands the value of money. If you have noticed that she spends more than she earns or forces you to buy something for every week or month, then that could be a negative sign.
She might be more interested in your money than you. You can take a test. Stop spending any money on her for a month, and see how she reacts.
If she’s okay with that, then your relationship can work well, but if her behavior changes towards you negatively, then get out of that relationship quickly.
3: Does She Supports Or Motivates You?
If she does, then congrats, you’ve got an amazing partner, but she doesn’t or always try to bring you down, then it’s another sign that the relationship might not go well in the future.
Catching negative people is quite easy, our mind is well trained in it. If you always get some negative vibes when you meet her or talk to her, then stop meeting her for some time and check how you feel. If you feel good, then that means the relationship you are in is toxic.
Cutting off negative people is really important if you want peace in your life. Having negative people in your circle can cause depression, social anxiety, sadness, and low self-confidence. And, I know you don’t want it, do you?
4: Her Friend Circle
Her friend circle can also let you know whether she will be a good partner or not. Just notice how her friends behave when they meet you, do you feel negative around them or do they treat you badly?
If yes, then tell your girl that you don’t like them, if she is okay with it, then you can continue your relationship because she understands and cares about what you like and whatnot.
If she isn’t okay and calling you toxic, then pack your bag, it’s time to move out of that relationship.
5: How Often Does She Lie?
Is she a liar?
Nobody would like to spend their whole life with a girl who lies a lot. If she lies often, she could cheat you as well. So, beware of girls who lie too much.
Okay, but how to detect a liar? Well, catching whether she lies or not is quite difficult, however, below are some tricks to catch a liar by Verywellmind.com
A few of the potential red flags the experimenters determined that might indicate that people are deceptive include:
- Being vague; offering only a few details
- Repeating questions before actually answering them
- Talking in sentence fragments
- Failing to deliver specific details when a story is challenged
- Grooming manners such as playing with hair or pressing fingers to lips
Head researcher R. Edward Geiselman suggests that while detecting deception is never straightforward, quality training can enhance a person’s ability to detect lies:
“Without exercise, many people think they can catch deception, but their perceptions are irrelevant to their actual ability. Quick, insufficient training sessions lead people to over-analyze and to do more harm than if they go with their gut reactions.”
6: Her Behaviour Towards Your Mother
Sons are closer to their moms than anyone else. And, there is a reason. Nobody loves us more than our mom. They are gifts to us from heaven.
Getting a girl that respects your mom as much you do is really difficult. If she isn’t behaving nicely around your mom or disrespecting her, you must think about the future of your relationship.
7: Her Behaviour Towards Your Close Friends
We can fight with anyone for our best friends. They understand us more than anyone else. Having a girlfriend who doesn’t like our close friends or hates them for no reason, would not be good at all.
In long term, you would find difficulty in spending your life with her. Notice her behavior around your friends, is she comfortable? is she feeling irritated?
If she does feel uncomfortable around your friends, then talk to her and ask her why. Get a clear reason.
Note: Girls do take some time to get comfortable around your friends, if she doesn’t wanna talk to them at first, chances are she isn’t feeling connected with your friends yet and needs more time.
Conclusion
Having a beautiful loving caring life partner is all we want in our life. However, some girls aren’t meant to be life partners, that’s why catching them early becomes a necessity.
In this post, I shared 7 Red Signals that you must notice before you get into a serious relationship with her.
The most important point to look out for is her behavior around your close friends and family members, and her past dating history as well. If you aren’t getting great vibes from her, leave it asap. It’s a red signal.