After a breakup, everything feels terrible, it feels like we should cut ourselves off from the outside world until our minds are calm down.
After a breakup, many people assume that their ex must be experiencing the same emotions, but sometimes reality differs from our expectations.
Perhaps your ex is happy with his life now that you are no longer with him.
(Before I begin this post, I just wanna let you guys know that points which I’m about to mention are just possibilities, the truth could be different. We are bloggers, we share possibilities. )
1: He Quickly Got Into Another Relationship
After suffering a bad breakup, most people don’t engage in love affairs for a long time. This is because erasing the memory of the person who we loved deeply is not easy at all.
If he quickly got into a relationship with someone else after breaking up with you, it strongly indicates that he doesn’t have any remorse; in fact, it indicates that he didn’t even have enough love for you when he was in a relationship with you.
I know it may be tough to hear for some of you, but that’s the reality.
When I had a breakup in college, I didn’t date anyone until I got over my ex’s feelings. It took me almost six months to recover from the profound impact my breakup had on me.
Some people take longer than 6 months, and others, no matter what, never forget their ex.
Again, if he got into another relationship, he didn’t love you enough. Accept it!
2: He Doesn’t Reach Out To You On Social
Almost everyone nowadays uses social media. People today use social media to connect and share what’s going on in their lives.
If he constantly shares photographs, statuses, and stories on social media but never messages you or attempts to interact with you, it could imply that he has forgotten about you and no longer cares about you.
If he has blocked you on social media, you can create a new account to see what he is up to now.
After a breakup, most people don’t update their social media accounts for a while.
However, this is not the strongest of indicators because some men don’t connect with their ex because they don’t want to rekindle their feelings for them. Maybe he is also one of them and that’s why he isn’t talking or connecting with you on social media.
3: He Doesn’t Make Eye Contacts With You
You’ll see that he’s not making eye contact with you and appears to be making an effort to ignore you.
If you just broke up with him, it’s possible that he’s shutting you out because he’s hurt or sad about it, but if it’s been a while and he still ignores you the way he did in the beginning, it’s likely that he has moved on and no longer feels anything for you.
4: His Freinds Don’t Talk To You Anymore
If his friends used to talk to you while you were his girlfriend but no longer do, it means they have accepted that you are now a stranger.
Our friends reveal a great deal about ourselves. For example, when we like someone, our buddies begin to tease us whenever the person we like gets or sits close to us.
Similarly, when we dislike someone, our friends begin to minimize their involvement with the person we hate.
If his friends aren’t talking to you like they used to, it strongly means that they don’t want you now and you should look for someone else.
5: He Looks Happy
You will be able to sense it. Is he smiling more? Is he laughing more? Is he having a better time?
If you answered yes, I think you need to go anywhere. Happiness is the most telling sign that he has progressed.
What Should You Do?
Screw his sentiments! Yes, you can move on and start a new life.
It’s foolish to love someone who doesn’t give a damn about us. Here are some things to stay away from.
1: Don’t Listen To Sad Songs
Sorrowful songs can evoke sorrowful emotions. If you wish to forget about him, you must avoid them.
Instead, listen to songs that will inspire you.
I used to listen to rap songs after my break up especially encouraging rap songs.
2: Add Valuable Skills
Now that you are single and have plenty of spare time, why not invest it in developing the abilities that will make you wealthy?
You could grow into an expert at something by dedicating just two hours per day to it. Therefore, stop crying and wasting time. Stand up and begin to better yourself.
3: Don’t Spend Time Alone
You won’t get better by being alone; in fact, it will make your mind more troubled.
It’s a terrible idea, but I’ve seen a lot of websites advise individuals to spend time alone if they want to deal with a breakup. Never take that action!
4: Beleive In Yourself
You will grow stronger as time passes. Simply smile and believe in yourself, and everything will be fine.
I hope you liked this post.
Thanks for reading!