how to get her number on Instagram

Instagram is filled with weird men, they try almost everything to get the number of the girl they are talking to. However, most of them fail because they lack basic talking skills.

In this post, I’ll be sharing some of the smoothest ways to get her number. These steps always work. Also, the steps I’m about to mention are based on the research I did online and my personal experience.

So without wasting any more time, let’s start the post.

1: Use Cheesy Pickup Lines To Make The Conversation Interesting

A good start always works. There are so many pickup line guides available online that can help. Copy or take the idea from the post and use it in your conversation.

However, make sure the line you’re about to send is not too vulgar or rude, otherwise, it will backfire. She might think you’re just another pervy.

Also, select the most interesting pickup line. For example:

  • “I ought to complain to Spotify for you not being named this week’s hottest single.”
  • I was wondering if you’re an artist because you were so good at drawing me in.
  • I would never play hide and seek with you because someone like you is impossible to find.
  • Are you a magician? It’s the strangest thing, but every time I look at you, everyone else disappears.

These were some of the best examples. However, you can find tons of these, just search “Best pick up lines” or Best pick up lines for Instagram”

2: Use Emojis

This is another way to increase the engagement between you and the girl you’re talking to. Using emojis is far better than sending plain text.

For example, find the difference between these two messages below.

“You’re hilarious” “You’re hilarious 🤣🤣🤣”

You can clearly see, that the one on the right, contains more emotions, while the message on the left looks boring like the sender is lying.

Also, use the most accurate emoji according to the situation.

Using emojis gives the receiver a statement that you’re liking chatting with them. So whenever you can use an emoji, use it. Don’t think twice.

3: Don’t Reply Too Quickly

Replying instantly to a message, especially, if the other person is replying after some hours will decrease your reputation. She might think, you don’t have any work to do, you’re just a vacant person.

If she is replying to your messages after 8 hours, reply to her after 9 hours, take your time, and don’t show her that you don’t have anything thing to do instead you wait for her texts all day.

The chances of getting her number will disappear into thin air if you continue replying to her messages instantly.

4: Tag Her In Interesting Posts

Girls love pets or travel-related posts. Tag her in those kinds of posts to increase your friendship with her. However, don’t tag her too often, otherwise, she will get annoyed.

And only tag her when you find the post really interesting. Also, before tagging her, you can tag your friends and ask whether they liked the post or not. If you get a positive response, then tag her, if not, look for another post.

Furthermore, if she didn’t react to the post you’ve tagged her in, then understand that she isn’t liking it. Stop it right away!

5: Use The words “We” And “Us” More In The Conversation

The word We and Us are quite powerful words. Subconsciously, it tells that you both are made for each other. This word also plays with the emotions of women, so using it more, would increase your chances of getting her number.

Use texts like, “We were looking great together” “We should help them” “We are so awesome together”

6: Make Her Friend, Your Friend

Her friends can share a lot of secrets about her. You can ask things like, which celebrity does she likes the most, where does she like to visit the most, and what is her favorite movie genre.

When you’ll know her interests, it will be easy for you to communicate with her. You can make the conversation long-lasting and eventually ask her to share her number.

7: Ask Her Number (Take Action)

If you’ve been chatting with her for quite a long time, why not take the action. Ask her that you want her number. She might deny it, but it’s okay, at least you tried. What if she agrees and gave her number to you. That would make your day.

Winners always take action and losers fear taking action. She might leave you one day and begin to talk with someone else, and you’ll regret it hard, so don’t stop yourself from taking action.

8: Explain to Her Why You Want Her Number

Be real, tell her that you want her number because you find her attractive. Or if you have any other reasons, you can share that too. But don’t lie.

Lying would not help, one day she will discover that you lied to her, and that would hurt her, and you don’t want that, do you?

9: Meet Her In Real Life

If she lives near to your location. Why not meet her? It would help her in knowing you more.

Text her that you want to meet her. Tell her the place you live, and discuss how you both can meet. If she denies to meet you, then no issues, wait for the perfect time to come and ask again. Don’t stop trying.

Meeting her in real life can definitely boost your chances of getting her number.

10: Upload Great Pictures and Stories

This is the best to give a good first impression. Upload only those pictures in which you’re smiling and having a great time.

Before you upload, you can take reviews from your friends. If the response is positive, upload it without wasting any time.

11: Video Call Her (If You Can)

If you can’t meet her in real because she lives very far, video calls her. If she has said yes to a video call. Decide the time, and dress well for the call, so that you can give the best impression possible.

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